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Stop telling me I'm gay and let me do my job!!

by hf148 @ 19.04.2007 - 20:21:27

I love my new job- it’s worthy, fun and interesting. But for some reason, working for a gay rights charity automatically means I must be gay. On singing the praises of my workplace to my mother, her thoughts lay not with the pension plan or the salary. Instead she anxiously queried: “You’re not going to become a lesbian are you?”

 
My partner’s family, my friend’s parents and other acquaintances all have similar questions regarding my sexuality, simply because of the career choice I have made.

What I think this demonstrates is ignorance along the same lines as the idea that a man cannot work for a feminist organisation, or a white person cannot be against racism. It also shows that gay rights is still viewed as a niche issue, only cared about by certain ‘types’ of people, and lost against more high profile equality campaigns.

 
I would like to think that the job I do is much more important, and far more interesting, than my sexual orientation. 


 
 

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Good luck in your new career--personally, I think it sounds wonderful!

I've had a similar problem for years, now. Because I chose over ten years ago to stop dating, I have people sometimes asking me--in a laughably awkward fashion-- if I'm a lesbian, simply because I don't go out with guys.

People do get their mindset stuck in a very narrow rut, sometimes, ey?

harewood1harewood1 [Member]
2007-04-19 @ 21:44

I think it's great that you who care about your fellow human beings even if you do not personally identify with their situation.

If the world had more people like you I would be a happier person :)

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